Listen listen, Linda, listen - candles should always be used with care. Do not leave them unattended and please be safe around children and animals. Our candles come 'fixed' or 'dressed', meaning we've added oils, herbs, stones etc. to an already flammable product. A little goes a long way when it comes to herbs, do not overdo it - let the herbs fall where they may. If you have extra, use it, but do not add too much to the flame. You can add the extra to a bath or a different candle if you'd like. Allow the candle to burn long enough for the top layer to melt before you blow it out, but then you can re-light it as often as you wish. Trim your wick if need be. If you're using a glass jar candle, watch your candle as it nears the bottom as it can break if any herbs catch fire. Ensure candles are always on a stable and heat-resistant surface, away from curtains, clothes, products etc.